so this happened
"do you like money?"
"text me when you get home" means "i love you, be safe."
if you dont still say “wed-ness-day” in your head when you spell wednesday then ur a fucking liar
This was on the news today, are you kidding me?
You realize when you get married both parties sign on for physical intimacy and so “rape” is rarely considered as possible in a marriage.Woah woah woah, what the fuck? No. Rape is totally possible (and depressingly common) in marriages. If you ask your wife if she wants to have sex and she says, “nah, not tonight” and you have sex with her anyway….that. is. Rape. Marriage is not consent to sex whenever, wherever, and however your spouse wants it.
It kinda is consent, and you’re obviously not in the right marriage if you have to ask…Oh my god, I feel so bad for your fiancé. Asking for sex isn’t always a verbal thing, as anyone who has ever been in that kind of relationship knows. It’s in that transitional time where kissing or a massage leads to something more. If you’re macking on your wife and try to initiate sex, and she shrugs away like “eh, no thanks. I’d rather just go to sleep” or whatever her reason is, you need to stop. If you continue, you are raping your wife. If your wife or husband says no to sex, that doesn’t mean you’re in an unhealthy relationship. They might be tired or sore or not comfortable or just not in the mood. And that’s okay.
Well seeing as in a marriage with the right person it would never be a no….
Also that goes against everything y’all have said about rape, according to y’all it has to be a verbal yesWhat do you mean it would never be a no? Your wife might be sore. She might have a headache. She might just not feel like having sex. That doesn’t mean she doesn’t love you any less. Good God, man.
You realize it’s not always about the wife right? Men are that way too sometimes. Get your head out of your ass.
In a marriage you make sacrifices, you may not feel up for it but your partner is and you love them. That’s all there is too it.You’re right, men can get raped in marriages, too. However, you are a straight man and women get raped far more often, so I’m using that scenario as an example. As for that second part, what. The. Fuck. People who really love each other don’t force their partners to do something that makes them feel uncomfortable.
Did I say anything about force? No. Get your head out of your fucking ass
Listen up, boyo, cause you’re missing the fucking point.
You should not expect your wife to have sex with you whenever the mood strikes you. ESPECIALLY once you guys start having kids.
By expecting Ashley to have sex with you whenever you want because “you love each other and marriage makes sacrifices”, that is forcing her. Perhaps not with physical force, but with emotional manipulation, which is a huge fuckin red flag for an abusive relationship.
First of all you can get my name out of your mouth.
Second of all my husband will not, has not, and never will force me to do anything physically and/or emotionally BECAUSE HE RESPECTS ME. As my husband he knows my moods and knows whether or not I’m in the mood for sex… Just like every husband and wife should know their partner. Nowadays we have to many people getting married and THEN getting to know each other and it doesn’t work that way, at all.
You’re right, people should get to know each other before they get married, but regardless, not saying that your husband has-or will- forced you to have sex, you will, as any sensible person would, want to be able to say no to sex. Sometimes partners can misread us, which is usually an honest mistake, but it happens!! You deserve control over your body!
But I have control over my own body…
And how would you feel if someone tried to take that from you?
No one is gonna take that from me because I stand up for myself. Unlike most of y’all who let people control you with words.
I dont think you understand how seriously sleezy and manipulative rapists are. Rape makes the victim feel powerless, regardless of whether or not you stand up for yourself. I stand up for myself too, but its different when its sexual harassment or assault. Ive had men much larger than me blow in my ear, Ive had men rub their hands up my thigh, touch my butt, and breasts, and it took all I had to keep myself from crying. I certainly didn’t have the strength to say anything. What you think you would do in that situation is very different from what you actually end up doing.
Wow, I wouldn’t cry. I’d be mad as hell and slap/hit the dude, I’d react not just sit there and take it. I never had any of that happen to me, but I also don’t walk around in low cut tops with my boobs hanging out or with short dresses on with my ass showing…
the problem with reading a good book is that you want to finish the book but you don’t want to finish the book
um if you don’t reblog this
bc i have them myself.
I wouldn’t mind cause I have them too xxWhy would scars ever stop someone dating someone else? It shows they overcame whatever was trying to drag them down. It shows they’rebrave and incredibly strong and real. Of course I’d date them, who wouldn’t want someone with those amazing characteristics?
I am dating someone with scars <3
Too bad these people don’t exist in my life
I married someone with scars. They turn 26 today and I thank my lucky stars for them every single day. Thank you for fighting and winning, my love. Happy birthday. <3
i have mine, they can have theirs
cute story time: my one friend is dating a boy who is blind and they go for walks everyday and as they walk she describes everything to him and he always says that “she makes everything sound so beautiful, except herself, but one day I’m determined to make her describe herself in the same beautiful way she describes the earth” I’m so
OH MY GOD THATS ADORABLE
Do not wear contact lenses if you are in a situation where you may be tear-gassed. When I went through basic training, we were warned that there was a possibility the tear gas they were using could melt contact lenses.
When I was just starting high school, a girl who rode my bus invited me to stay the night at her house and when I did she got really emotional and told me no girls ever stayed over because she was a lesbian and if you don’t think that’s the saddest thing ever you need to re-evaluate your life
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